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POSTS & LETTERS TO MY SACRED REBELS ACROSS THE WORLD

(MADE FROM PIXIE DUST AND MAGIC)

{Reflections of Racism} I should have believed them

{Reflections of Racism} I should have believed them

I’m in Hawaii for the first time and it’s even better than anyone had said. The vibe is chill. The people are awesome. The sky is lit with colors I didn’t even think were possible. And I’m getting the best tour of Oahu that not even money can buy. Because I’m getting...

The Trauma of Magick

The Trauma of Magick

We’re reading My Grandmother’s Hands as part of a leadership group I run. It is a brilliant and breathtaking book about trauma… specifically racialized trauma and the pathway to mending hearts and bodies. I emphasize the last part because, as Resmaa Menakem teaches...

{Reflections of Racism} When others simply don’t exist

{Reflections of Racism} When others simply don’t exist

I love gaming. Online gaming, to be more specific. I didn’t think I’d ever be that girl, but I am. I’m no expert and I don’t play everything I come across. But when I find an MMORPG game I love – like World of Warcraft – I am in and I am dedicated. Apparently, I am...

You can find healing…

You can find healing…

When the doctors told me I would never be more than 60-80% of the human I was before the robberies and my PTSD, I was devastated. Worse, I believed them. (So did Joe.) And we made plans to compensate for this “lack”. ❌ Deb would never work.❌ Deb would never function...

It doesn’t always have to be S.M.A.R.T.

It doesn’t always have to be S.M.A.R.T.

There is a flow or rhythm to everything that we do. And it used to be that business and creation was all about timetables and schedules and S.M.A.R.T. goals and all of that jazz. (Maybe for you it still is!) But if it's not and you're feeling like that's rubbing you...

Why can’t you be first?

Why can’t you be first?

Who told you that you’re not allowed to be your priority? And who benefits from your belief that this rule is true? I think that second question is the most important. (Wish I could take credit, but it was my friend Sarah Paikai who taught me to ask it.) Really… go...

“You are designed for success.”

-Debbie Burns

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